Buernorki’s Story: Embracing Healing, Family Support, and Self-Acceptance Through Autoimmune Challenges

My name is Buernorki Plahar. I have been living with an autoimmune condition since I was diagnosed in 2017. It hasn’t always been easy, but through it all, I have learned how to manage it. It will eventually affected my skin. My treatment includes medications such as prednisolone, hydroxychloroquine, omeprazole, osteocare, and occasional supplements to help boost my hemoglobin levels. I also have a very supportive and understanding family. Who have been my hope and strength. I have never felt alone.

About six months ago, after returning from a funeral in my village, I noticed rashes appearing on my face. At first, I thought they were the usual flare-ups I had come to understand. But this time, they developed into patches that spread more quickly than I had ever experienced before. It was difficult to watch, especially as it extended to my arms. Still, I held on, trusting that healing would come—and last month, it finally did.

That period tested me in many ways. It affected my self-esteem, as people made assumptions and spoke carelessly, sometimes right in front of me and sometimes behind my back. Even my son felt the weight of it, sharing with me that some of his classmates teased him about my appearance. Hearing that was painful, but it also reminded me how important it is to stay strong not just for myself, but for him too.

Today, I am in a better place—physically and emotionally. I have come to accept the changes in my skin, and more importantly, I have embraced myself fully. My family stands by me with love and understanding, no longer questioning but simply supporting. My colleagues, too, have shown acceptance, allowing me to feel comfortable and confident again.

This journey has taught me resilience. It has shown me that healing is not just about the body, but also about the mind and spirit. I am still here, still standing, and still hopeful for brighter, healthier days ahead.